This motivational and inspirational book empowers us, as parents, with ways er can raise the self-esteem in their children through changes in our attitudes and actions towards our children. While most parents know that helping their child build self-esteem is important, few have a clear understanding of how to go about it. Mrs. Miller, a former teacher, identifies the three vital ingredients of self-esteem as honesty, discipline and respect. She suggests ways to strengthen our children's self control; and thereby, empower them to raise their own level of self-esteem. She uses examples and vignettes to assist parent. She outlines useful problem-solving techniques, and provides realistic expectations. Communication and tolerance are at the core of Mrs. Miller's approach. To her, the classroom, like the home, represents a model of a social system similar to a community, and country, and the world. Mrs. Miller delivers a powerful message: YOU CAN CONTROL YOUR CHILD'S DESTINY. This book is a "must read" for every parent who is wondering how he can make a difference in his or her child's life. Written in an easy-to-read style, it is appropriate for various educational levels. Her book is a good addition to parenting collections, and makes a great gift.